Monday 29 January 2018

Entree to Love: the sheriff's in town

Ha! So my quest for love continues as does my commitment to my idea of Entree to Love.  What I can report, is that there is nothing to report. That cloak of invisibility is still shrouding me, but what is exciting, is that other people are excited about the idea of connecting in the real world.  I WANT EVERYONE TO GET EXCITED! And there has been a little bit of word of mouth happening, but not enough yet for me to hold an event - well I could hold one, but not sure how the mingling would go.  Come on people, get on the love train.

I nearly fell over dead when someone told me that they heard there is a man drought in Melbourne. I don't need to hear that, and I am sure that all my single women friends don't need to hear that. Pretend you didn't hear that women friends.  I am doing my best to smoke all the good ones out. I will leave no dry man pond unturned.  I will make the baron wasteland of man drought flow like a volcanic eruption of man juice. (Should i put a submission into mills and boon? I am sure i could make the morning news sound sultry, not just the weather).

My friend recently posted this on instagram and I was like hell yeah. And I often ask people who talk to me about stuff whether they are the driver or the passenger in their life.
So with regards to love and finding the right love, should we wait for it to happen, or go in search of it just like any other goal that we have. Should we be the driver or passenger?

I think with love, sometimes we have this kind of fear, or taboo that comes with wanting to a part of a healthy loving union, like oh, i don't need that, we don't deserve it, or our past hurts hold us back from being open to the experience, so we base all future possibility on the past fears, or on the other side, is the horror of being rejected.

Rejection does suck, but it's also a part of life.  We get rejected for jobs, for a house contract, my credit card sometimes gets rejected, but we just have to keep moving on.  The rejection factor with online dating is usually savage.  But don't take it to heart.  It's not you, it's them...unless you are doing the rejecting and if you are, then there's probably a reason why. But put your big pants on and do it in a way that leaves everyone's feelings intact. And if you do get rejected, be nice. Not everyone gets excited by your big fish, or your selfies with the toilet in the background. If i had a dollar for every get fucked, or fuck off fat bitch, or stupid old bitch, then I'd be on my way to retirement. SAVAGE AS FUCK!

I posed the question today about how much do we leave to chance when it comes to love or how much do we make our own destiny.  I have always been someone who has had the universe intervene in the most unusual ways in my life.  So why isn't it intervening in this aspect of my life?  I find it rather perplexing, so that just means one thing.....I can't leave it to chance. This isn't a bloody disney movie, this is real life. My life is full of love but I want the love where eventually I wake up with someone...someone who's happy to have my morning breath and doesn't think it's weird that I like my toast stone cold.

I have to put my creative thinking cap on to get the word out that I am (to quote my friend Elena), I am going for it. Cause I would rather be out of my comfort zone working towards my goal (and why shouldn't love be a goal), then sitting home on the couch waiting for prince charming to land in my lap (i like asian lillies and fresh cream truffles - just sayin).
Do you think James Bond would have made it out of that crocodile infested water, if he just said "she'll be right mate"? No, he had to seize a moment and say, I am going for it.

So here's what it has come to for me ........ A WANTED POSTER. hahahaha. The sheriff always gets his man right?  Thinking I might print some out and stick them to telegraph poles around town.  (I am taking this business very seriously). But seriously, like everything else I do with life, i want to embrace it, challenge myself and be open to possibility and have a giggle along the way.
If i don't take charge, who will?  I am going for it!

So i am going to continue to put the word out that I am looking for one awesome guy and as you know, I want to do my bit to help others connect along the way.  So if you want to get on board (not on board me - cause I'd like to get to know you first), but on board the entree to love bus, then get in touch.  I think it's going to be a lot of fun with a lot of positive support along the way for those of us who are out of our comfort zone just thinking that we'd rather be eaten by a pack of crocodiles, instead of running towards the opportunity to go for what it is we want. 

Stay tuned, cause the love sheriff's got her bubble gun ready for when she needs to make an arrest.

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